Toxic People

Its been a while , I barely post anything in this blog. 

I usually talk about food recipe, family, and probably how things going-on in Indonesia. 

A while ago, i noticed that at time being, i am still having correspondence with my former Boss. He's over 80 years old, and live peacefully in Oslo, Norway. I remember lots of sayings he told me years ago. I've been through a lot of things in my younger days, and i learn a lot from him.. 

Not only how to do things in the office, but how to have a good self-control. Not to do something that you might regret. Try not to get involved in monkey business, as well as hanky-panky  :) 

I have a call to those who keep bugging my mind. Calling them the toxics or dementors - or even worst, the test packers.. :) .. (and my ex boss keep laughing when i told him about it.. ) 

Oh well.. there are many reasons why i addressed them that way... 

I've been witnessing a lot of incident, when their saying have bad effect to others. This is just wrong!!! Wrong in a sense that the act caused damage to others, in any way.. 

A small example.. Its been a while looking at those postings, lines and sayings.. And they are unbelievable. Even in this secrete month of Ramadhan, a moment where we should hold back everything,.. its like tallying chaos of statement. 

I cant see any other words phrase than that..  

Through the years, i learn that being a human means to act like human, make others and respect them as human too. It is ok not to get along with others, as we are just human. I learn to see things from different angle, and easily let go of those toxic people.. 

Learning to see that for them, ruining other people happiness are their best accomplishment, and make them an example, for NOT being like them.. 

Life is a journey, and most of us are having our own battle.. 

I learn that we should not think of what others say about ourselves, but we need to do and be a good person. It is important for us to be an agent of change, instead of pointing on fingers and say that to others. 

It is ok to be different, just never be a toxic person to others. You may heard the story, but you did nt know it thoroughly. 

Be gentle, be kind and just.. be human...