You know,.. I just finished the latest book written by Ika Natassha - which title is Divortiare..
Well, i must say that she's quite a helluva writer.. meaning.. i love the way she writes.. I do.. after a very yuppy wedding - cant wait to read her next book..
What's inside the book is about a divorce.. divortiare - in italian word.. She include her daily activities in her writing - which amazed me.. ( i cant hardly do that.. ).. and open my eyes in several cases that happen in our daily life.
I have several frieds who are divorcees.. yet they had problems in getting divorce, unlike the story that ika told us in her book..
One thing for sure, i believe that we must focus in whats best.. not for ourself but to the children.. if you dont have any, and you want to be separated.. its a lot easier..
I cant tell you more, since I didnt get involve in any.. well.. some of close friends cases amazed me quite a lot.. some even doesnt make any sense..
Our children, mes ames.. always become the victim to any dispute that we and our spouse have.. Well, .in other word.. sometimes we have quarrell.. we didnt look at things from the same corner.. and its quite normal to have a 'discussion'... One thing that we must keep in mind.. think of your children.. what's best for them.. focus in them..
They are your jewel.. so you must focus in what's best for them, Ego is nothing compare to them..
Becoming parents is far from easy.. but it wouldnt be that hard if you want to take it one by one..
for me.. I am far from perfect. as a working mom.. I have less time to spend with my family, maybe only in weekend.. But im trying like hell to be.. at least a decent one..
Should not be too hard to try.. isnt it? Just by simply kiss them when you can.. and give them some hugz.. (my hubby will get more than that ..kekekekek... ).. at least.. show them that you adore them.. At least.. as a starter... Well.. im trying.. and still trying.. and never had enough of hugging them..
For me.. divortiare.. keep allll my effort to stay as furthest as i can..